99: To host or not to host

If you are hosting Christmas, do everyone a favor and give them some direction, but not too much direction. I can only imagine what situations might have caused Thanksgiving hostess Marney to pen this letter! With a little planning, you should avoid most of those and do it gracefully.

People appreciate knowing your expectations ahead of time. Invitations don’t have to be fancy, but they do need to be informational.

Guests want to know:

  • Arrival time
  • What to bring (ex. green vegetable side dish for 12, BYOB, etc.)
  • If there be a gift exchange, and  house rules
  • Time food will be served
  • Where they can park
  • What time the event ends
  • What to wear – is this a formal dinner, or are we eating off paper plates and swimming?
You should ask:
  • Does anyone in your guest’s party have life threatening food allergies or other dietary requirements. Let them know in advance if you can or cannot accommodate them, so they can plan ahead.
  • Ask for an RSVP and give them a deadline.
Most of the time, people are willing to go the extra mile if you have something very specific in mind. If you are planning to get a coordinated extended family photo during the gathering and you want everyone to wear black and red, let everyone know in plenty of time so they can pull their wardrobe together.  If you don’t mind that Uncle Eddie will show up in his plaid pants, then don’t worry about advance notice.
All of this knowledge before the event helps everyone with kids plan a successful and enjoyable day for their families, which in turn, is enjoyable for everyone else.
If you’re not a host, but are a guest, I think it’s reasonable to call you host and get all of your questions answered, especially if you have kids. I hate showing up to something that I think is obviously kid-friendly or family-friendly in my mind, and the reality of it is that everyone has gotten a babysitter and it’s an adult-only sit-down dinner. That is a incredibly awkward for everyone involved. Nobody intended it, but there it is.

94: Free Coffee Maker for the Holidays

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“Do you have any coffee?”
“Uh, no. I don’t even have a coffee maker.”

This conversation has occurred more than a few times. For the amount of money I would spend on some decent coffee, I could get enough coffee to entertain my guests for the holidays, a coffee maker, a stainless steel carafe, and a travel mug! Wow!

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Even if you already have a coffee maker, it’s a good idea to have a backup or an extra one, especially if you are a coffee addict or entertaining. Give Gevalia a try and get the coffee maker, carafe, and mug FREE! I’m going to get one for the holidays, and after that, I might just keep drinking the stuff!

Finally, you are probably wondering what this has to do with kids, right? If you are a coffee drinker, you probably weren’t asking that one! For everyone else, any money saved on entertaining means more money available for other stuff, plain and simple.

P.S. They have tea, too!